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KatieSandstrom



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Location: North Pole, Alaska

PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2003 1:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Classy B,

The "date" happened last week. It was....interesting Shocked

Went gambling at one of my favorite casinos and had breakfast at 3am.
When he tried to kiss me I couldn't stop laughing. So we ended up talking for a few hours instead.
For a split second during the "talking" I thought, "maybe I should attack him, have my way him, and get it over with." Then I came to my senses and said, "NAWWW." Laughing
Why should I give in? I only kinda sorta like him just a little. Wink


Now for lg,

If I talk about heating duct frabrication design and 24 gauge sheet metal it just excites the guy more...especially when I talk about airplanes, chainsaws, guns, and other common topics for this Alaskan chick.

I think for my next date I'm gonna take him to the airport and count how many P-Traps are in the restrooms. Very Happy
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PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2003 4:56 am    Post subject: laughing during the kiss Reply with quote

now see, I would have used that opportunity to talk about the no dating rule, kiddo! The time allen site...coulda opened a new window, maybe?

Your sense of humor is wonderful. What they say about men from Alaska being a breed unto themselves must also be true for the women! Maybe you need to find an unattached builder with whom you can discuss the things you're interested in! Or hire yourself out to a man who wants to build his own house...I don't know, katiepride.
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KatieSandstrom



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PostPosted: Sat May 31, 2003 9:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

lg,

I guess I'm cursed. I grew up on job sites....the foremans duaghter.
I know too much about MAN stuff. Very Happy
I grew up around welding and one ton pick-up trucks...plumbing & heating...and on and on.

I'll stick to what makes me happy with the dating thing....and that's NO more dating. I'll wait another year.

Meanwhile life is great and I'm happy with the road I'm on. Cool
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barbara



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Location: Kalamazoo, Michigan

PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2003 9:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

So I take it KatiePride--there will be no 2nd date for this one. Smile
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KatieSandstrom



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PostPosted: Sat Jun 07, 2003 11:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Barbara,

Actually, we have a "date" set for this Friday...I've made it clear that there will be no kissy-kissy (cause I'll start laughing again).
Just dinner and a show on the Las Vegas strip.

He's a co-worker and we need a break from work...so this date could be considered my 4 hours of a social life for the year Laughing

Today is my first day off in 35 days. It's time for a lil fun in the sun.
Thus, the dude gets a second chance Wink
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 07, 2003 3:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

you're a good hearted woman, Katiepride....
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KatieSandstrom



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 08, 2003 1:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

awww, golly gosh, gee willies.

Thanks lg.

You're too kind.
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barbara



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 08, 2003 5:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thats cool Katie--2nd chance that is..What I can't understand, why can't a guy just be a friend? Someone to hang out with, and have fun with no kissy kissy etc.? When I was going thru my divorce, I had a guy like this, we would just go out and have fun--it worked for a while, when it got to the point he wanted a relationship---after 21 years of marrage--I wasn't ready and willing.
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 10, 2003 4:11 am    Post subject: barbara Reply with quote

you could have told him you thought you did have a relationship with him. he obviously found assets in you he thought might be worth the try? men and women can be friends, friends can even be sexual, i think. i guess the understanding is not moving into different areas of relating, but in understanding what each others idea of commitment means.
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barbara



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PostPosted: Tue Jun 10, 2003 6:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ya, I did that, in fact I was honest from the start....but he wanted to be more than friends----I needed a friend more than I needed a lover. Maybe it comes from the fact that alot of guys want what they can't have.
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KatieSandstrom



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PostPosted: Wed Jun 18, 2003 11:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I agree...most men want what they can't have.
And I seem to be a walking billboard...

CLOSED FOR RENOVATIONS aka you can't have me!

You tell a guy, "I want to be just friends" ...and he wants you more.


By the way Barbara... the date last friday didn't happen.
He blew his paycheck gambling....loser Exclamation
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JMonster



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PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2003 6:44 pm    Post subject: Re: a MAN question Reply with quote

KatiePride wrote:
When a woman decides to take a break from dating...
does a man desire and become more attracted to that woman?





I ask this as I decided to "take a break" last year...and in that time I've been overwhelmed with men asking me out.
(and I ain't no Tool Time Heidi) Razz


The answer is obvious. You are not sending out "desperate" vibes.
Men and women both like confident people. If you decide you are not in the "market" then you actually exude confidence in who you are. Hence, you attract PEOPLE. You may notice women talk to you also! Wink
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Hotrod



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2003 6:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

KatiePride wrote:
I've made it clear that there will be no kissy-kissy


You can't make decisions like that. If you have a nice time the kiss will always come !! You can't make clear that there will be no kissing on an evening.
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KatieSandstrom



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2003 11:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hotrod wrote:
KatiePride wrote:
I've made it clear that there will be no kissy-kissy


You can't make decisions like that. If you have a nice time the kiss will always come !! You can't make clear that there will be no kissing on an evening.
SOOOOO, what you're saying hotrod, is I CAN'T decide for myself? If I have a nice time, the kiss will ALWAYS happen? I have NO other choice? I guess after the kiss, then sex MUST follow?
Rolling Eyes

Sorry hotrod....but I do what I want , when I want.
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kanyonatic



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PostPosted: Sat Aug 09, 2003 6:49 am    Post subject: been there am there!! Reply with quote

Very Happy hi

well i found that three men who were not in the least interested in me suddenly became interested in me when i renewed my faith ..problem well yes all are married one actually in name only but all know i don't date married men or ones in relationships or going through a divorce yet they waited until now to tell me.In a way i'm glad as i found it easier to say no..

er i think hotrod meant if you say no to kissing and you went on the date and you really liked someone and you had said no kissing and the other person liked you they wouldn't want to kiss you because of what you had said..on the other hand you may have wanted them to kiss you but missed the chance...he may have meant if you were meant to kiss you would if you didnt want to kiss then theres no way you would i dont think he was getting at you...have i said all this right ...the heat is getting to me here..

heres my experience might clarify it a bit better
once went out with a man whom i liked but only as a friend and on the second date i made a rule no kissing(we didn't on the first either) and he agreed then a couple of dates later i realised i really did like him but he showed no signs of liking me the same ..we ended up being good friends ..i then bumped into one of his friends and found out he did like me but because of the no kissing thing he felt he couldnt broach the subject and thought i wasn't interested in him so he put it out of his head you see we both missed our chance

i am making sense aren't i? it is so hot here

anyway i think thats what he was trying to say...i've lost track now.
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